When people talk about planned and perfect relationships, don't believe them; they might be talking about a movie they've seen or heard...

When people talk and boast about someone's planned and perfect relationships, don't believe them; they might be talking about a movie they have seen or heard. There is no such thing on earth. We are all unique and even our likes and dislikes are also unique, though at times it looks like similar. So don't get angry or upset when your partner says no when you say yes, or yes when you say no. Try to understand, be patient, reach a common ground, talk with love, kindness and understanding. Remember though you both look like the same outside, in terms of interests; but truth of the matter is: not same. Accept and respect others, inform and request them, your choice. Never force your partner for anything, though you get it you may not enjoy it to the full. So enjoy life without harming others. Bible/Jesus said, love your neighbor; why, this is why.