Blessings and Curses are Spiritual and Supernatural, they can Neither be Bought, Nor be Sold, my friend. Obedience to GOD brings Blessings and Disobedience to GOD brings Curses [Deuteronomy 28.1-14], [Deuteronomy 28.15-68]. Beloved, Jacob had: gold, silver, wives, children, servants, cattle,. but yet he had to wrestle all night with GOD in order to be Blessed [Genesis 32.24-26]. John the Baptist Lived in the wilderness, Wore camel skin, Ate locust and honey, went on Preaching GOD's Word and Baptizing the Repented people and was Beheaded to Death; Jesus said of all men born of women no one is Greater than John [Matthew 11.11]. Virgin Mary became Pregnant without being married; what a Disgrace but GOD said she was Blessed [Luke 1.42]. So, Never Equate your worldly Success or Failure to your Blessings or Curses. BIBLE/GOD says what is highly esteemed in men's sight is Abomination to GOD [Luke 16.15]. Friendship with world is Enmity with GOD [James 4.4]. Wake up, my friend to Seek, Believe, Obey GOD/BIBLE to be TRULY BLESSED [Isaiah 66.2], [Hebrews 11.6]. Truth. Wisdom. Choice.