STOP being Misled or Deceived! Never call or consider something as your Blessing; Feeling Proud about it and keep on Boasting about it, if you had to get that by SINNING [John 8.44], [Galatians 6.7-8]. Blessings and Curses are Spiritual and Supernatural, they can Neither be Bought, Nor be Sold. Obedience to GOD brings Blessings and Disobedience to GOD brings Curses [Deuteronomy 28.1-14], [Deuteronomy 28.15-68]. Jacob had: Wives, Children, Servants, Cattle, Silver, Gold,.. but yet he had to wrestle the whole night with GOD, in order to be Blessed [Genesis 32.24-26]. So, Never Equate your worldly Success or Failure to your Blessings or Curses. BIBLE/GOD says We can't Serve two Masters [Matthew 6.24]. What is highly Esteemed in men's sight is Abomination to GOD [Luke 16.15]. Friendship with world is Enmity with GOD [James 4.4]. So, Wake up. Change course. Be SAVED and SERVE GOD [Romans 10.9-10], [John 6.27-29], [Matthew 6.20], [Mark 10.29-30]. Truth. Wisdom. Choice.