Beloved, STOP wasting your Feelings on people/devil who never value them. Some people Change, Some Don't but Some Never will. Selfish they grow, Selfish they live, selfish they die. Possessions, Positions, Power are their gods. They Love THINGS, they USE people because they are Blinded/Ruled by devil [2 Corinthians 4.4]. So, STOP Waiting Indefinitely, Wasting your precious Time/Emotions on them; rather Turn to GOD who LOVED, LOVE and will always LOVE us until WE have the right to Choose. GOD is Eagerly Waiting for us [Revelation 3.20], [John 3.16], [Revelation 21.4]. So: Seek GOD/BIBLE, Believe HIM, Obey HIM, Befriend/Celebrate HIM [John 15.14]. Wisdom. Truth. Choice.

Whatever we do for ourselves; to please self and our selfish desires, to PLEASE OTHERS dies off with us [Matthew 6.1-4] whereas what we do for GOD [Isaiah 58.6-14] Believing and Obeying HIM directly or indirectly [Matthew 6.19-20] like spreading the Gospel/JESUS [Matthew 28.19-20] caring the Orphans, Widows, Destitute, Poor and Needy, becomes immortal [John 6.27] gets into GOD's book for rewards [Revelation 22.11-12] Rest all will be Not be remembered by GOD [Mark 10.29-30]

People become hated and miserable because they are married to their selfishness. People become happy and loved because of their generosity...

Some people become hated and miserable, because they are married to their selfishness. And some other become happy, loved, respected and praised because of their generosity. Selfishness kills whereas generosity protects, prospers and brings happiness to its possessor. So be generous. Generosity doesn't mean only giving money or things but it can be anything; even your time, an advice, encouragement, a listening ear,. Bible/God says, give so that you will be given; and generosity is the secret of increase.