Bible/God says; you are your own enemy, when you are happily married to your wrong mindset [Hosea 4.6] never even allowing others to correct or help you. What is wrong in knowing about better options around without committing to change. Wisdom. There are things you and others, know about you; name, appearance. There are things you know about you whereas others don't; bank balance, passwords. There are things you don't know about you but others do; wrong mindset, weaknesses. There are things, neither you nor others but only God knows about you; ill health, time of death. Don't be ignorant of this truth, there is always something we never know. So trust God, believe in men too, be open to knowledge and wisdom and be ready and swift to change for good...