If you are filled by The HOLY SPIRIT, you will have these qualities in you, in an increasing manner, as you grow in JESUS spreading the Gospel [Matthew 28.19-20] [Acts 1.8] my friend, if not kindly check, if you are really in JESUS still...GOD is LOVE [1 John 4.8] you will reflect HIM in your Thoughts, Intents, Words and Deeds; even without your Knowledge....