My friend, Being: judgmental and criticizing others will never bring us any joy and happiness but only bitterness and sorrow; whereas showing love, forgiving and correcting others fills us with joy, peace and hope [Matthew 19.19] Just a choice... Beloved from the depth of your heart, do you really want to be: loved, respected, happy, joyful, peaceful and hopeful in life? Then without a second thought follow the teachings of Lord Jesus, believe Him, obey HIM, He is Our SAVIOR and the Prince of Peace [John 10.10] [Romans 10.9-10] Don't be afraid of men [Matthew 10.28] Change your belief, traditions and whatever if needed, because change is always a must for progress....