Speak to GOD in prayer... Listen to HIM through HIS Word, The BIBLE... Beloved we become our own enemy, when we are happily married to our own wrong mindset [Psalms 16.4] never even allowing God or Godly people to correct us [Romans 12.2] So listen to God/Bible [Isaiah 1.17] [Isaiah 1.19] Come out of darkness.... People enslave us because we make them our gods [Isaiah 1.20] but when we worship God, seeking and remaining in Our Creator's presence [Psalms 16.11] He makes us wise, free, joyful, great, peaceful and hopeful. God is God [1 Peter 5.17] He cares for us....