We lose ourselves when we let others to define us. LORD JESUS bought us by HIS BLOOD [2 Corinthians 5.17] [1 Corinthians 7.23] don't become slaves of men... GOD created us, GOD is keeping us, GOD has given us life, GOD is blessing us, GOD owns us and GOD promises us of ETERNAL LIFE, when Believed in HIM; let HIM say who we are; Not the Tom, Dick and Harry in the streets or Ruth, Rebecca and Rachel whom you know. You are a Masterpiece my friend. Don't let Anyone stop or fool you from knowing and realizing what GOD your Creator supposed to say or said about you to be overjoyed and fall in LOVE with GOD...Go to GOD'S Word, The BIBLE to know these truth...