Enjoy every moment in life with your loved ones; feel free to express your love, feelings and observe and ask for your loved one's feelings too, nothing wrong in that, in fact that is the right thing you must do. Be proactive. Ask for their preferences and choices, instead of assuming and spoiling your/their happiness. Remember in every happy relationship; the little things matter a lot, indeed they are the big things. Don't be too reserved. You don't have to be like that, unless and until that keeps them happy. Be wise. Live, enjoy your life, thanking GOD from the depth of your heart whenever you remember HIM, who gifted us with this mysterious life without us asking!