Enjoy every moment in life, especially with your loved ones; smile, laugh, crack jokes and feel free to express your love, feelings and at the same time observe and ask for your loved one's feelings too, nothing wrong in that, in fact that is the right thing you must do. Be proactive. Ask for their likes, dislikes, preferences and choices, instead of assuming and spoiling your and their happiness. Remember in every happy relationship; the little things matter a lot, indeed they are the BIG things. So don't be too reserved. You don't have to be like that, unless and until that keeps them happy. Be wise. Live, enjoy your life, thanking GOD from the depth of your heart as frequently as possible, who gifted us with this mysterious and awesome LIFE without us asking HIM. Wisdom and Gratitude.