Beloved, be who you are; say what you feel, because those who mind doesn't matter and those who matter won't mind. There is a priceless beauty in telling truth. There is no one else like you in the universe before or will ever be in the future. You are unique, so be like you [Psalms 139.14]. Copying or pretending like others will rob away the purpose for your very being here. That's why GOD/BIBLE says 'Lying lips are an Abomination to the LORD: but they that deal truly are His Delight' [Proverbs 12.22]. Remember, one lie will lead to another and that will become a never ending thing; making you lose your self respect and identity before men and becoming an Abomination to GOD. Truth. Wisdom. Choice.