in order to be with the LORD when DEAD or to be Heaven for Eternity, Our: Self, Ego, Anger, Hatred, Jealousy, Pride, .. Must DIE [Matthew 16.24], [2 Corinthians 5.17], [2 Corinthians 5.8]. My friend, We should become like little Children [Matthew 18.3]. JESUS/BIBLE Says 'Verily, Verily I say unto you, Except a corn of wheat fall into the ground and Die, it abides alone; but if it Die, it brings forth Much Fruit. He that loves his life shall lose it; and he that hates his life in this world shall keep it unto life Eternal' [John 12.24-25]. FYI: We cannot Serve two Masters [Matthew 6.24]. What is highly Esteemed in world/men sight is Abomination to GOD [Luke 16.15]. Friendship with world is Enmity with GOD [James 4.4]. They that are in Flesh cannot Please GOD [Romans 8.8]. So, Don't be DECEIVED, GOD cannot be Mocked,. [Galatians 6.7-8]. So, CHANGE. Truth. Wisdom. Choice. Share.